Tuesday, July 31, 2007

Dari jalanan ke Harvard...Sebuah kisah benar...

Aku pernah tengok cerita tentang ketabahan dan ketekunan gadis berusia 15 tahun ni di Hallmark Channel. Pertama kali aku tengok, aku menangis..dan aku dah tengok cerita ni more then 3 times tapi aku masih menangis dan insaf everytime though...how hunger and desperation could influence people's life. Aku tgk watak utama berdasarkan kisah benar sbg seorang yang takde sense of security...takde apa...kosong...dia takde rumah...mak ayah penagih dadah..mak dia kemudiannya HIV positive and died of AIDS dan ditanam di tanah perkuburan lot kebajikan...and the father lived in shelter and also suffering from AIDS...the sister was partially blind and lived with a grandfather who hated her. She left the house and lived everywhere...but she has got the brain...and she has got the courage and determination.

Aku rasa cerita-cerita macam ni yang perlu disiarkan di TV pada waktu perdana...cerita-cerita macam ni yg lebih layak mengisi ruang santai keluarga daripada cerita Janji Dianos..Sembelit Kasihan..reality show yang cuba mencari bakat menyanyi yang mana pesertanya sibuk menjaja bakat dan berkata 'demi Tuhan saya tak tiru CT Nurhaliza,saya adalah diri saya sendiri, ni kejadian asal saya(sambil teresak2 menangis dan nampak warna hitam dari mascara yang tak waterproof tu berlinangan di pipi yang ditepek ngan foundation setebal 2 km..) dan jugak cerita lain / bual bicara yang jemput artis yang sgt emosional and brainless yang kadangkala tak tau nak beza antara Rasul Allah yang Mulia kedudukannya dengan diri dia sendiri yang rambut pun tak nampak warna asal dan juga muka yang dah berkedut 2 ribu tu? ...

Am I too harsh? I do think so... I've got concrete points there...Secara logiknya, kesusahan akan mengajar kita untuk lebih mengenal diri...sebab dengan ujian kesusahan manusia akan sentiasa mencari 'jalan pulang yang benar'..dan juga sebab kita ada iman...perkataan yang ringkas tetapi dalam maknanya dan tinggi pengaruhnya dalam hidup kita as a Muslim...jika diuji dengan ujian kesenangan...biasanya, manusia akan terleka...sentiasa merasakan diri mereka benar dan betul...mengenepikan semua nilai yang benar...mengenepikan ajaran Islam yg syumul dan kerap meyakinkan diri sendiri..."Aku yakin dengan diri aku, selama ni pun aku gembira..bab iman dan amalan..tu urusan aku dan Tuhan..aku puasa..aku raya..aku buat amal kebajikan..yang lain-lain tu kalau aku ikut tak up to date lah aku nanti"

Akan tetapi, adakah kita boleh paksa orang untuk menghormati kita? Atau kita hanya mahu certain group of people je hormat diri dan kehidupan kita dan bagi yang tak nak terima diri dan cara kita, kita akan labelkan org tu sebagai ketinggalan zaman or too jumud? Aku bukanlah manusia yang sempurna...sbb kesempurnaan bukan milik manusia...tetapi cuba menjadi yg terbaik...moga Allah makbulkan doaku...

Ermm...apa yang aku merepek ni? Aku sebenarnya tertekan dengan keadaan sekeliling. Yang lalai dan lagha terlalu diagung2kan..yang benar terlalu ditindas...namun aku insaf kembali...hidup ni hanya sementara..yang kekal abadi adalah di akhirat sana..semoga kita semua tergolong dalam golongan ummat yang mendapat syafaat junjungan mulia kita di sana nanti...dan bersenang-lenang di taman syurga firdausi...ameen....

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'Homeless to Harvard' Heroine Says Everyone Can Learn from Her Amazing StoryApril 6, 2005, Greencastle

"It's not about Harvard, it's not about a prestigious school," says Liz Murray of her incredible and uplifting life story, which she shared with an audience at DePauw University tonight. "It's not about that. It's about learning, about educating yourself and gathering enough knowledge to find your way through any little crack or crevice you possibly can so you can move up and escape from that trap you were born into."
The 24-year-old Murray, who went from living on the streets of New York City to winning a scholarship to Harvard University, delivered The Timothy and Sharon Ubben Lecture, "Homeless to Harvard: A Remarkable Journey," in Kresge Auditorium of DePauw's Performing Arts Center. Working without notes and addressing her audience from the edge of the stage, Murray detailed how she was born to drug-addicted parents, and how as a child, living in squalor, her parents and everyone she knew was living month-to-month on government checks.
"I didn't even know that people worked when I was younger, 'cause you have to think about -- what does a kid seeing when they're little. I saw that people cashed welfare checks... they were happy to see the mailman, he was like Santa Claus or something or some celebrity -- and we'd go to the check cashing store and there would be a line wrapped around the block for an hour-and-a-half" on the days checks arrived, she remembered. Her parents would spend the bulk of the money on drugs; about $30 a month was all the family of four spent on food, and Murray's parents would go without food for several days at a time.
Despite the tumultous environment in which she was raised, Murray says she has always loved her parents. Her life, already in disarray, unraveled quickly when her mother was diagnosed with HIV. Her mother moved out, her father went to a homeless shelter, and Murray, then a young teen, was sent to a group home. Her unpleasant experiences there led her to run away and she lived on the streets of New York City, eating out of dumpsters and sleeping at friends' houses or on subway trains, but in her own words, "going nowhere." The year Murray turned 16, her mother died, and her view of life changed.
"I got the sense that my life was in my own hands," she told her DePauw audience. "And I knew that already, but it's different when a parent dies; maybe some of you know what I mean. You look around and strangers become more strange, big institutional buildings look scarier, everything looks more alien, nothing is friendly. There's no person to think about yourself through. It truly is yourself in the world, and that's it. I realized my own isolation and I realized there never would be somebody to kind of filter me in the world. And I went back with my friends, and without having her to think about anymore -- I mean I did, but not the same way -- I sat with them and I realized that I had been falsely relying on my friends. I realized that, at the end of the day, whatever I did or did not do with my life would stick to me, even if I hung out with them."
Murray, whose story is chronicled in the Lifetime Emmy-nominated movie, From Homeless to Harvard: The Liz Murray Story, enrolled in an alternative high school at age 17; when most of the people her age were graduating, she was starting. Guided by an understanding teacher/mentor and fueled by a desire to make something of her life, Murray finished high school in two years while still sleeping where she could find a place to lay her head at night. When she visited Harvard on a school trip, a seed was planted. Murray applied for a New York Times scholarship and was one of six students selected out of the thousands of applicants. A story profiling the scholarship winners was published on the cover of the Times' metro section.
"I really didn't understand the power of the media before that, but I found out," Murray said with a chuckle. "You know [that] New Yorkers have this reputation for being really cold, right? Well, the readers of the newspaper came out of their houses around [the school] and brought me sweaters and clothing their kids weren't using anymore. Some lady came just to give me a hug! Another came just with some cookies, then she said to me, 'I don't have any money, Liz, but I have a stationwagon and a house. Do you have any laundry?,' she asked me. 'I just want to do your laundry.'"
Murray's story was featured on ABC's 20/20 and she was a guest of Oprah Winfrey, becoming the first recipient of the talk show host's Chutzpah Award. Murray transferred from Harvard to Columbia University to be closer to her father, who is ill. She had been studying film, but after talking about her experiences in front of audiences around the nation and the world over the past few years,

"My interests broadened because I realize that I have certain insights based on what had happened to me, and I had this opportunity to share with people and go back-and-forth and maybe draw some meaning out of it." She now has her sights set on a masters degree in sociology and psychology hoping to "understand what creates motivation in a human being and how to apply that in society. Is there a way to create upward mobility? Is there a way to break class differences?," she asked. Murray's ultimate goal is to create a coaching and seminar company that will work with groups, perhaps specializing in inner-city schools.

"Instead of just speaking about my life, I want that to be a footnote, and I want to offer strategies to people.

Me too- I also wish the same thing...that one day, people will qoute my words in their writing...and at the moment I'm working really hard to achieve that....................May Allah eases my path to success....ameen...


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